Giving Gifts on Hanukah? Think Twice To Maximize the Benefits

Posted by David Bernstein on November 19, 2013
Topics: Assimilation, Hanukah, Purim

Do you give Hanukah gifts?

Traditionally, Hanukah was not a time for giving gifts. Hanukah gelt (money) yes, but not gifts. Prof. Jonathan Sarna explains that Purim is the traditional time for gift-giving – mishloach manot. (He does not mention that those gifts are traditionally of an edible nature.)

Prof. Sarna claims that in the late 19th century, as Christmas became a national holiday in America and grew in stature, Jews began the practice of giving gifts on Hanukah. As consumerism has grown, that practice has also increased.

Is there anything wrong with this? Perhaps it should be seen a Jewish adaptation of a practice in general culture, which simply enhances a Jewish celebration.

In truth, even the more traditional practice of giving Hanukah gelt is relatively recent (17th century), and has no basis in Jewish law. Apparently, the custom began with parents giving small children money to give their teachers. From there, it was a short hop, skip, and a jump for children to receive the money themselves.

If one is going to give Hanukah gifts, then let it be not only an expression of love and caring, but also a reflection of the values of the holiday. Rabbi Haskel Lookstein taught me that the best Hanukah gift is a Jewish book. I agree, and would broaden it to anything that reflects/ increases Jewish culture: a subscription to a Jewish publication, a Jewish ritual object, a course in Jewish studies or adult education, a trip to a Jewish historical site, tickets to a Yiddish play, or Jewish apps and databases.

Like other Jewish holidays, Hanukah can be interpreted in many different ways. Different Jewish communities over the centuries (and today) have seen the holiday from different perspectives. American Jews have often seen it as commemorating the fight for religious freedom (fitting in quite neatly with American values), while Israelis are likely to relate to it as a struggle for political independence (echoing Zionist values).

Given the contemporary Jewish situation in the Diaspora, perhaps we should be emphasizing another aspect of this much-observed holiday: the right of a minority to maintain its own distinctive culture in the face of the hegemony of a dominant culture.

This last possibility may well resonate in an increasingly multi-cultural world, and is relevant for Israeli Jews as well. While we in Israel have the advantage of a Jewish language (among other things), most of us are nonetheless surrounded by a post-modern Western consumerist culture that has a greater impact on us than many of us would like to admit. Maintaining, deepening and renewing Jewish culture and cultural values is a struggle that is not only part of the Hanukah story of old – it is just as relevant today.

This Hanukah, give gifts that help to build a vibrant Jewish culture!

About David Bernstein

David holds a B.A. and M.A. in History and a Ph.D. in Religious Education from New York University. He also attended Yeshivat HaMivtar.

David has been the Dean of Pardes since 1998. Previously, he was the director of Midreshet Lindenbaum, popularly known as Brovender’s, for 12 years. David was a Jerusalem Fellow at the Mandel School for Jewish Education in Jerusalem from 1996-1998. Click here to read more.

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